Tuesday, June 24, 2014

I am Malala: Quotes



I just finished reading a new book called, "I am Malala" about a young girl who was shot by the Taliban because she was a women's education activist.  It was really inspirational and I wrote down some quotes as I read it... and ended up with a lot.  I found that a lot of these quotes rang true to me in my own faith and beliefs, even though they were not said from someone with my faith or with my experiences.  I love that some universal truths (ideas of faith) are universal- that makes me believe that much more in my Heavenly Father and his love for us all.
Here are some of them:

"We felt like the Taliban saw us as little dolls to control, telling us what to do and how to dress.  I thought if God wanted us to be like that He wouldn't have made us all different.   (124)"

"At night our fear is strong, jani," he told me, "but in the morning, in the light, we find our courage again." And this is true for my family. We were scared, but our fear was not as strong as our courage. "We must rid our valley of the Taliban, and then no one had to feel this fear," he said. (138)

My father would say to me, "Any organization which works for peace, I will join.  If you want to resolve a dispute or come out from conflict, the very first thing is to speak the truth.  If you have a headache and tell the doctor you have a stomachache, how can the doctor help? You must speak the truth. The truth will abolish fear." (139)

In his pocket he kept a poem written by Martin Niemoller, who had lived in Nazi Germany. ..I knew he was right.  If people were silent, nothing would change. (140)
First they came for the communists, and I did not speak out--
 because I wasn't a communist.
Then they came for the Socialists, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a Socialist.
Then they came for the Trade Unionists, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a Trade Unionist.
Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a Jew.
Then they came for the Catholics, and I did not speak out--
Because I was not a Catholic.

Then they came for me—
and there was no one left to speak for me.



Then I'd pray to God, "Bless us. First our father and family, then our street, then our whole mohalla, then all Swat." Then I'd say, "No, all Muslims." Then. "No, not just Muslims; bless all human beings." (237)

"It is my belief God sends the solution first and the problem later," replied Dr Javid. (269)

We human beings don't realize how great God is.  He has given us an extraordinary brain and a sensitive loving heart.  He has blessed us with two lips to talk and express our feelings, two eyes which see a world of colors and beauty, two feet which walk on the road of life, two hands to work for us, a nose which smells the beauty of fragrances, and two ears to hear the words of love.  (301)

In the Quran it is written, God wants us to have knowledge. He wants us to know why the sky is blue and about oceans and stars. (312)

I love my God. I thank my Allah.  I talk to him all day.  He is the greatest. By giving me this height to reach people, he has also given me great responsibilities. Peace in every home, every street, every village, every country- this is my dream. Education for every boy and every girl in the world. To sit down on a chair and read my books with all my friends at school is my right. To each and every human being with a smile of happiness if my wish.  (313)

Fairie Festival and Taste of Louisville



Our area has a lot of fun festivals and street fairs in the summer; on June 7 the entire family went to some.  Mom and Dad were watching Mat and Andi's kids for the weekend** and Erica's family came down for the fun.  

We first went to the Lafayette Fairie Festival; so the little girls could see fairies and get their faces painted.  It was SO WEIRD; I was expecting it to be a little 'Renaissance Fair'- esk and maybe a little eccentric but I was not expecting what we got.  There were things the kids could do at each tent, live music and there were fairies flying- what could be bad about that? It looked homemade (but not well) by a bunch of overzealous fairy enthusiasts on 'something' other than happiness and it was set up in a small dirt lot with a handful of tents.  There were a lot of costumes from a leprechaun, a dragon, pirates, princesses, street wenches, and, of course, fairies.  Most of the fairy costumes looked like a women's excuse to wear a corset (some looked like lingerie) with a tutu, a ton of make-up and wings. There were some cool parts; like a group of high school level actors that put on a play with sword fighting and a 'real' mermaid that the girls got to see (it was a little magic to a 1 year old).  
 
 

We then went to the Taste of Louisville, which is a street fair down Main Street in Louisville where there are a lot of booths and, what the kids were excited about, free stuff.  There were food carts, advertisement booths, entertainment/advertisement booths, craft booths (Rachel and Nedra were there with their beautiful jewelry) and some live entertainment. We got free fondue, free cake and free cookies and free snow cones- the kids were on a sugar high.  The kids got to break a board in half with their hand (I did it with my forehead- I'm awesome) and did jump rope competitions.  It was hectic and exhausting but very fun!!

 
 
 
 
 
 

** Mom and Dad watched Mat and Andi's kids for the weekend while they went to Arizona for a job interview (they got it, they are moving- tear).  I got to have the kids spend the first night with me; we saw 'The Sandlot' at the Movies-in-the-Park. And of course we went to the Sweet Cow!  Later I went swimming with Wyatt, Gwyn and Elizabeth- it was fun but hard to watch all those little ones in the water (thanks Mom for helping with that one).  It was so much to have them spend the weekend down in our neck of the woods.  I sure do love those kids and will miss them when they go. 
She is hiding because I told her not to eat dirt... and she ate dirt!
Cousin Love!! These three play so good together!
 
 
 
 
Another side note- since I am so behind on my blog.  This last Wednesday (June 18) Mylie come over to spend the night and watch the movie in the park with me but it was rained out.  It was so much fun having her here; she went with us to story time at the library, made delicious banana bread and mowed my lawn.  Then Andi and the kids came down and we played at the park, went to sweet cow (yes, again, it's good) ,had a delicious dinner and then got to listen to (while we played) the concert in the park (Mat and Ben were off of work for this).  It is always so much fun when they come down!! That night Ben was getting Elizabeth ready for bed and she fell asleep in the bathtub- poor tired girl!!

Ron's Stroke



On Thursday April 17 Ron had a stroke. It was such a scary time for our family and to see such a strong man struggle.  Ben was grateful that he was able to be here to help his mom and Rachel through the ups and downs.  

After a couple days in the ICU he was moved to a rehabilitation floor.  He had lost most movement of his left side and began physical therapy to gain that movement back.  It was a long and hard process; Ben, Rachel and Nedra all went to help and support him.  Ron is one of the most hard working and unrelenting  men I know and this was evident in his determination to get better.

He is home now, and it is great to go and see him there.  He is still doing physical therapy and still has a long way to go but we are so grateful for the progress he has made and that he is doing so well.

Sarah came and saw us while she out here to help out. She took this picture so show her kids- and I thought it was cute!
 

Mother's and Father's Day!



I had a great mother's day and was spoiled silly (new clothes, sleeping in, no poopy diapers, delicious food!) I am so grateful for the awesome women in my life and the inspiration that they are to me.  I am especially grateful that I have been trusted enough by God to raise and love one of his children.  I love Elizabeth; I love every moment, good and hard, that I get to have with her, I love when she discovers new things and watching her grow, I love her affection and baby kisses.  I am so grateful to be the Mother of such a wonderful girl!
 

 The day after Mother's Day we went to the store and Elizabeth was given a free Mother's Day balloon which graced our house until after Father's Day!! She LOVED it!!


 
The day before Father's Day (June 14) we went to the Stones' House to celebrate my amazing Father! They had all the kids make hand prints out of cement for a walkway in Mom and Dad's garden.  Elizabeth did not like me pushing her hand into the cement and definitely did not like us washing it off with the hose. 
 
 
Ben got a pickle ball set for Father's Day; so that morning we tried to go play but the courts were being used, so instead we went on a long walk in the beautiful morning! We had a delicious dinner at the Newson's  (steak- what else?) and got to spend time with Grandpa Newson.   

Ben is a great father and I am so happy to have him in Elizabeth and my lives.  He is so patient and brings comfort and love into every aspect of his relationship with our little one.  I love him lots and I am pretty sure Elizabeth does too!!