Tuesday, September 25, 2012

Two of my Favorite Things: Donuts and Grandma Stones



While in Utah for the funeral we also got to see Jeremy and Heidi's family.  As a special treat they got donuts from a specialty shop called, Beyond Glaze.  These were the fanciest donuts I had ever seen or tasted.  They got a whole box (so we could each try and enjoy) of bacon donuts.  At first they look...interesting but they are delicious.  I liked the maple because it tasted like a donut, maple syrup and bacon- best breakfast ever.  




We left to head home on Sunday but we had the chance to stop by and see Grandma Stones and Melanie before leaving.  It was so great to see them and to be in their home; I am sad to say that we do not make it out there is much as we would like.  Grandma has the best laugh, it lights up the room, and Melanie is so funny and caring, she definitely has that wonderful 'Stones Humor.'  It is so great to be there and so great to see them. (Rachel was with us and she sang a hymn for Grandma.  It was wonderful to see Grandma's face light up.)



James Nichols



On August 26, we got the sad news that Ben's cousin, James Nichols, had passed away. It is always so hard to hear that someone you know and care about has died but it is even harder when they are young and have a full life ahead of them.  We immediately started changing plans and getting time of work to go to Utah for the funeral that weekend and to support his family. 

James was married and had four beautiful children (ages 9 to 1).  He co-owned, with his brother's, the family Auto Repair Shops throughout the Provo, UT area.  His family was very close and during our time there shared story after story of his wonderful life and funny personality. 

We are so glad that we were able to make it for the funeral and to hear the stories and share in the celebration of James' wonderful life. 

Ward Camp Out/Service Project/Party- Aug 17-18



Our ward Elder's Quorum plans and hosts an annual Ward Camp Out every year.  This year our Elder's Quorum President moved and left the quorum president-less for about a month.  Ben was called as the new Elder's Quorum President 5 days before the Ward Camp Out was to take place- yikes.  He had many men who had already been working on it and he was able to jump in and help get everything settled- so the camp out went on as planned. (Side Note: We think it is funny that Ben went from Young Men's President to Elder Quorum's President- they are letting him slowly grow up!)

If Ben wouldn't have gotten this calling, we probably wouldn't have gone, but in the spirit of support we both went up to Golden State Park for a fun night of ward camping.  I love camping,  I love the smell of  fire, I love the outdoor wilderness BUT I do not love it very much when I am 17 weeks pregnant, grumpy and sick.  I tried to sleep (we had only brought one pad-oops- so we 'shared' it- I have an amazing husband) and I tried but it was HOPELESS!! After a difficult night we woke up and Ben, with some other Elders, started making everyone breakfast. 


At around 9, a van got there to take all the youth and leaders to a Stake Youth Service Project.  The drive down the mountain in the bus made me so sick I thought I was going to vomit in front of the youth. When we finally made it to the project, a little late, I helped our kids get involved and gave them jobs.  The project was to 'beautify' a walking trail along a river in Erie. The youth pulled dead branches out from the undergrowth, dug holes and buried new trees, had to haul water (far) to all of the newly planted trees and mulch the area.  It was long and hot but 'many hands make light work' so we were able to get it done in no time.  (I am proud of our youth from going from camping to service- it was hard and they did great.)



I got home about 15 minutes after Ben (he stayed and cleaned up the Camp Out) and about 5 minutes later (literally) Dad came to pick us up and take us to Denver for Andrew's Birthday Party! Because we would be swimming, neither of us showered (yes, that is gross), and I am sure we looked like the walking dead when we arrived.  It was fun to be with family and talk and catch up. (I tried swimming but it was a cooler day and I could not stay warm. The kids spend most of the time in the hot tub.)  




That night we were ALL exhausted.  On the way home we told ran into traffic and ended up sitting on the highway for over 45 minutes.  I felt horrible for Dad, who drove, because Ben and I could not stay awake and were no help in entertaining him during the delay.  In the end we arrived home safely.  We had a jam packed but good weekend and we had a good long (until our early morning church meeting) night's rest!

Don't go to the Dentist!



Ben has really good teeth; he doesn't regularly go to the dentist but he is always plaque and cavity free.  I do not have good teeth and they have got embarrassingly worse since being pregnant. Last April I made an appointment for us to go to the dentist and get our annual check-up/clean; the appointment was set for the early morning of August 2!

It was a beautiful Thursday, Ben had taken the morning of work, and together we drove to Longmont towards the dentist.  We were stopped at a light and in deep conversation when two cars collided in the intersection in front of us. I had never seen a car accident before and it was like the world went in slow motion and in hyper speed at the same time.  One of the car's spun and hit us.  As it was spinning towards us Ben had time to scream, "Oh no!" and reach over to grab my arm and I had time to clench every muscle in my body and put my feet (which we already up) and arms against the dash to brace the impact.  (Looking back at it, we have decided it is good, and a little worrisome, that our airbags did not go off because it would have broken my legs and arms. Ben has since forbid me of putting my legs on the dash.)

As if a switch were flipped the moment the car stopped moving everything came back to a real speed and we were called to action.  I grabbed my phone and immediately called 9-1-1 as I jumped out of the car and ran to the nearest car to see if he was hurt.  He was 'ok' so I went to the other car, giving a description on the phone to the responder, and found that the woman in the other car was hurt but not badly.  Ben came over and helped me get her out and sit on the curb.  He then checked her out and sat with her, while I called her husband and informed him of the accident.  

The ambulance and police quickly arrived and the 'clean-up' began.  The woman was going straight and sped up to make it through a yellow light.  She was getting gas for a big vacation they were leaving for that afternoon.  The man (in the car that hit us) also sped up to make the yellow but he turned left (as we all should know, the left turner always get's the ticket).  

She broke one arm and a wrist from the airbags. She also had some cuts but they were not major.  She was taken away by the ambulance and her husband, who had arrived shortly after the police, stayed behind for insurance and stuff.  The other man in the accident did not go to the hospital but stood shaken and upset on the side of the road (we did learn later that he left the scene and went straight to the hospital to deal with some whip-lash and airbag burns).  

Ben and I were fine.  As we sat, waiting for the police to get to us and our statement, and the adrenaline left us we started to feel the impact a little; headaches, sore backs, ect. It took almost two hours before we were able to leave (clean up, pictures, statements, insurance) and fortunately our car was not badly 'injured' so we were able to drive home.

On the way home I called my Obstetrician (baby doctor) just to see if I needed to go in and they were very adamant that I go in and as soon as possible. So I dropped Ben off at work (he was so shaken that it took him a couple hours to get in the 'work' mindset) and went to the doctor.  They pushed me in with the first available doctor and I got a full physical.  The baby was fine and the little heart rate was normal. I was fine but I did have a seat belt bruise forming on my hips and across my belly.  I left the doctor and went to the chiropractor, where my neck and lower back were 'put at ease.'  That night we were both a little sore but we were both fine!

So we have been waiting for insurance claims to figure out what to do with our car. Our dear Avalon was the member of our family that was injured most, although it is all body damage.  The front bumper is cracked and all the 'frame' in the front was bent slightly to the left (so the door squeaks, the hood doesn't fit as tight and the light is crooked) but we are glad that nothing major happened. 

I took this with my phone after the accident.  You can't see the 3rd car.

So what did we learn from this experience?.... Don't go to the dentist!

Friday, August 17, 2012

Crocs Softball- Homerun...?


Ben is on a Crocs softball league; each department has their own team and every Thursday evening everyone stays late and play's softball behind work.  Crocs has a couple softball fields behind one of the buildings; they are equip with perimeter fences, team dug outs and bleachers.

His team, E-Commerce, does not always win but they are spirited and have fun.  Ben, as I have complained before, is naturally athletic and is good at everything sport related.  He is a really good softball player; played as pitcher all year last year because he was the only one who could throw straight.  This year he has been trying to get out in the field more and yesterday he was way back in right field. 

About 20 minutes into the game the other team hit a far one to right field and Ben was willing and ready to get it.  He started running, full speed, to catch the ball; the entire time he was running he was looking up to get the balls perfect position.  And then- WACK- Ben ran right into the perimeter fence.  Yes, it was a home run.  Yes, Ben was injured. But YES, the visual created in your mind is hilarious. 

I actually came to this game but I arrived right after the fight with the fence.  He finished the game, smiled and laughed with his co-workers and had a great evening.  When he got home he moaned and slumped onto the couch with multiple ice packs littering his body.  This morning he said he was really sore.

Ben's knee has a big scrape and bruise on it and his elbow is pretty bruised.  His side (ribs/stomach) are not bruised but are pretty sore this morning. And all the muscles on his right side are tight and sore. I am proud of him for playing the game.  I am so sad that he is so hurt.  And  I am very sorry that I find this incident so funny!!

YAY for BEN!!

Monday, July 30, 2012

Marriage Moment- The Pillow Case

Last night, while laying in bed I noticed that our pillow cases were getting thin and tattered. We have a white and navy blue bedspread so we can pretty much have any accent color we want in our room.  I turned to Ben and said, "If there was going to be an accent color in our room, what color would you like?" He looked at me with a super confused face and said,"Our room is blue."

Sigh- okay another tactic. "If we were to get new pillow cases what color should we get?"
Ben: "I don't want a new pillow case I like mine."
Me: "Yes, but IF we got new ones, which color?"
Ben: "I like my pillowcase!"

Sigh- okay another tactic. "If I were to get a new pillowcase for me, what color should I get?"
Ben: "I don't care what your pillow case looks like."
Me: "Yeah, but then mine could match yours."
Ben: "I like my pillowcase."
and on and on...

So...this conversation got us nowhere. At the beginning I think he was totally serious but then he started to see my exasperation and began teasing me. Needless to say, we might not be getting new pillowcases for a while.

(I know that if I just decide he will look at them and say, "I don't really like that color." AHHH!)

Ice Cream and the Park


Andi and the kids came down to hang out the other day.  We walked to Sweet Cow for ice cream and then played at the park.  It was a really hot day and Andrew and Mylie, despite their protesting that they 'weren't going to get wet' got drenched.  It was so much fun having them come down and getting to spend some time with them. 



 The next day we went to Andrew and Mylie's swim meet. They did great. It was probably just womanly hormones but it was so touching to me I had to stop myself from tearing up. I am so proud of them.